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There are billions of matter in my life that I do not have control on. I however do the best I can to keep things in my life under my control; I even use my manipulative emotional powers to will people to do what I want. Now it may sound like a nail grinding against the blackboard and I may be branded as a shellfish, be that as it may but I really do think that I am doing it for the better of the person I am trying to control. On the shallower side however I swear I am doing the best I can not to manipulate people to do things for me because I am too lazy to do it for myself but sometimes I really can't help it. Back unto the heavier note I do it to them because sometimes they are too silly to not notice what's infront of them, they are those who are very much guided by their emotions that they find distorted ways to grace out of the prob/situation and soon enough their reasons fail them.


Which brings us to the issue of  using another guy to get over another. That confusing approach that many girls have resorted to makes me sometimes think: Is it trully right? Is it morally just? how am I to pick what's wrong and right when I've seen both ways succeed and fail? And those I've asked seems to really agree and favor it. But still the question bugs me Is it morally right? And if its wrong in the first place won't it be wrong all the way? Won't it turn out terrible? And if it turns out good for how long will it stay that way?


There's this lesson we had on Philo about Fallacy Argumentum ad populum or simply known as bandwagon fallacy


What is the connection on the latter isue to the first one u might ask?


See I am under this dilemma with this friend. She just broke up with his loser bf and is now using this guy to strip away the pain. I am more than happy to see my sister not waiting over the phone or in YM but I do not wanna see her flirting around with some guy who has a gf. MY GAHD this thing I do not have control over I think. BLAH!